I  believe... there's always going to be a choice. Even if both choices are bad ones, there's always an alternative. Not always are the decisions going to be easy, but no matter what, you have the right to pick. For an example, you can choose to go with the flow or be unique. Sadly, being unique doesn't have much meaning anymore. Saying everyone's unique is like saying everyone's the same. Anyway, another example would be choosing to be positive and uplifting or bringing everyone down to your level. You have the choice to reflect who you are through your actions.
  On a more deeper level, you have decisions that come from within. You have the power to choose your own happiness. If you want to forget about the judgement and push away people's negative attitude, you can. If you think you can't achieve happiness, you're probably right. You have to have the strength to believe you're worth it. If you don't, you're practically not letting yourself. If you had to decide between settling with life or living it, what would you pick?
  Some people can't see their choices. They might think the only way to deal with the stress in their life is drugs or alcohol. If you think that, then that's your way of living. I'm not saying it's bad or putting that lifestyle down, I'm just making a point. Some things you can't choose; like your height or your family. You can decide how to deal with those things, though.